The Discreet Doctor's Library

7 Mistakes That Make Anal Sex Painful

FREE

Alarming mistakes that make anal sex more painful, stressful & risky – and how to fix them tonight.

• What’s Inside: Top 4 steps to take when something hurts; the one “fix” that often backfires; the hidden lube ingredient to avoid; the one health screen most men skip; and more.
• Access: 100% private download, produced by a board-certified gay men’s health doctor.

Ready, Relaxed & Confident

$27

The flagship anal sex confidence guide from a gay men’s health doctor.

• The step-by-step anal sex technique no one taught you.
• How to breathe and relax for maximum comfort and pleasure.
• Psychological tips to overcome fear and feel in control.
• Plus: personal lube checklist and mindset strategies for confidence.

The Complete Lube & Condom Guide

$17

A doctor’s complete guide to picking and using lubricants and condoms safely and enjoyably.

• Step-by-step advice on choosing the right lube for anal sex.
• Using condoms under extreme conditions; avoiding common condom failures.
• Troubleshooting greasy/irritating lubes, plus water-/silicone-based swaps.
• Illustrated tips for smooth condom use and safe sex.

PrEP & STI Testing

$17

Stay ahead of infections with a physician’s guide to HIV PrEP and all STI tests.

• How and when to test for HIV, syphilis, chlamydia, gonorrhea, hepatitis, & more.
• Step-by-step to starting PrEP: costs, insurance, and scheduling.
• Real-world Q&A: clarifying myths around common STIs and treatments.
• Tips on discussing sexual health openly with partners and doctors.

Hemorrhoids, Fissures & Anal Health

$17

Everything gay men need to know to prevent and treat anal discomfort.

• Identifying and soothing hemorrhoids, anal fissures and common gut issues.
• Techniques to avoid injuries during sex or bathroom use.
• When to see a doctor and what treatments work.
• Diet and lifestyle tips for better anal health.

HPV & Anal Cancer Screening

$17

Key facts and steps for protecting anal health from HPV and cancer.

• Why gay & bi men are at higher risk for HPV and anal cancer.
• Who should get screened, how often, and what the tests involve.
• Understanding anal Pap smears and HRA exams.
• Prevention tips (vaccines, condoms, etc.) and reducing your risk.

Finding an LGBTQ-Friendly Doctor

$17

Find a doctor who respects you: tips for discrimination-free care.

• How to locate and evaluate gay-friendly doctors and clinics.
• Questions to ask on first appointments and how to break the ice.
• Dealing with stigma or awkward conversations about sex.
• Know your rights: patient privacy and nondiscrimination in healthcare.

Erectile Dysfunction & Sexual Performance

$17 

Physician tips for healthier erections and more confident performance.

• Causes of performance anxiety and erectile issues in gay men.
• Medical vs. emotional factors: how to tell them apart.
• Proven treatments (PDE-5 meds, therapy, lifestyle changes).
• Techniques for building sexual confidence and intimacy.

The 10-Minute Clean Protocol

$9

10-minute anal cleaning routine: simple prep for peak comfort.

• A quick, doctor-designed routine to replace hours of douching.
• Recommended gear (shower attachments, bulbs, etc.) and usage.
• Printable checklist to streamline your preparation.
• No-runoff method so you stay dry for sex.